Tuesday, March 26, 2019

It's Finally Spring

The last couple months have just flown by.  Nothing out of the ordinary has been going on.  Just school and normal things.  It's just suddenly spring and the end of the school year is right around the corner.

I've realized that I tend to always start with Gabriel's stuff and this time I actually have more pictures of Corban.  That's usually not the case since he is less likely to hold still for a picture these days.

Walking at our favorite after school park, Nellie's Cave
 Some days when I take Corban to preschool he doesn't want me to leave, but he really loves it there.  Last week when we were leaving he said "When are we coming back to preschool?  I love it here!"  Then he yelled "I love you!" to his teachers and marched out the door.  On the way home from school today he said "Do you know what Ms. Lisa tells me sometimes?  She tells me that I'm very helpful and a very kind friend."

Class Valentine's Party
Class field trip to the gym and sitting with his buddies, Tobias and Luna

Corban's class took a field trip last week.  That evening the following dialogue took place:


Taylor: Corban how was your field trip today?

Corban: It was good. I didn’t hit anyone in the face.



Corban is his own guy.  He is wild and crazy, but then can be so sweet and cuddly.  He likes to sit in someone's lap while he's playing or reading books.  He still likes to suck his thumb and cuddle with "sack".  He also likes to bite his nails, cut things with scissors, be a cat, play with umbrellas, give little kisses, and sing random songs or make up new words to songs that he knows ("Mom!  I'm going to sing a joyful song now!"). We have been going through the letters of the alphabet and when he sees things that start with certain letters he likes to point it out or figure out what the starting letter is.  The other day he said "Rompy and Rubble start with an R!  We should put them our our R paper!"





A big fan of doughnuts.  And of saying
 "Momma, I like doing things with just you."

He loves Ninja class and Coach Daniel
Corban has taken to playing with his toys or telling stories using chapters.  He was playing in the bathtub the other day and I heard him say "Chapter 3!  Tony Stark and the Hulk!"  The following was a recent Facebook post that I made:

Corban spent the entire afternoon talking. He came out at rest time and said “Mommy I need to talk about some things.” He followed me around and proceeded to do so. When he got in bed he said “I just can’t go to sleep. I have so much more to talk to you about.” I said that it can wait until tomorrow. He said “Ok, we’ll start right when we get up.” Where did these talkative children come from?

The following happened just that night:

He came into my room at 5 this morning saying he had a bad dream. I asked if he wanted to tell me about it. He said “Chapter 1. The evil emperor bird steals Christmas. . .” And so he began. There were many chapters

Science museum with Daddy
Corban has been having some trouble with sleep lately, which isn't a problem we've had with either of the boys since they were babies.  He's not napping much anymore, and so is enjoying some quiet play time in his room in the afternoon on most days.  Some days he falls asleep in his bed during that time for a while.  The frustrating thing is that he keeps waking up sometime between 1am and 3am.  He usually comes into our room and just stands by Taylor's side of the bed.  He says that he's scared, though he isn't externally looking like he is. We want to give him the benefit of the doubt about it though.  Sometimes he gets in bed with Taylor for a few minutes and then he takes him back to bed. Last night I heard him shuffle into our room in his footed PJs and just stand by Taylor's side of the bed.  He stood there for some time.  I finally got up and asked if he needed something.  He said he was scared.  I just picked him up and hugged him and walked him back to his room.  He gave me a kiss and went back to sleep.  Him waking us up is a little frustrating sometimes, but he goes back to sleep without getting angry.  He's going through some kind of transition, with having so much to talk about, sleeping less, throwing age appropriate tantrums, etc.  He's trying to figure some things out.

One night last week Corban told me that he's scared of the dark because God is always there.  I hadn't thought of that from a kids perspective, but I could see how thinking about someone being in your room could be strange.  We talked about it and later he told me that he was glad that God was always with him.  I'm glad that his little mind is processing these things.

Opening day with our dragons

We don't go and see a lot of movies in the theaters because it's obviously so expensive.  Gabriel had seen a float with the How to Train Your Dragon characters on it on New Years Day.  He remembered from that what day the new movie was coming out this year and he pointed out many times that it came out on a day that he didn't have school.  SO, on that day the boys pooled their money and bought a new dragon and we went to see the movie in the theater.  Gabriel said it was the best day ever.

In the movie two of the main characters get engaged and married.  Gabriel's teacher sent me a text last week and said that while talking to one of his classmates about the new movie he said "I hate engagements.  That's all girls think about."

Playing on a fallen tree in the park.  We've had a windy winter

Valentine present from his buddy Addy
Local Hokie statue

Gabriel loves this monkey, who he named "Macaroni."  Corban, who did
not want to be left out of the noodle fun, named his Penguin "Spaghetti"


Helping Daddy change the oil
Taylor was out of town for a week recently.  He came back on Friday and I had to go to work on Saturday.  I told Gabriel that I was sorry that I had to go to work the first day Daddy was back home.  He said "Mom it's ok that you're going to work on Saturday.  We've been with you a lot this week and we want to hang out with Dad." 







Gabriel is up to the same things.  He loves his Legos and both boys have been really into dragons (due to some Christmas presents and the new movie that came out).  He told me that his favorite day of the week is Wednesday since he gets to have his violin lesson.  And he's super excited that tee ball starts back up this week. He also finally started occupational therapy.  I'm still trying to figure out how to incorporate the things that he's learning there into daily life.  They have been working on learning how to adjust his body from being fast and wild to calm and controlled.  He now has a weighted lap pad that he uses at school for math and writing to help him stay grounded and still.  He also has something on his pencil that he can purposely chew when he feels the need to do that.  They have also been working on identifying emotions and talking about appropriate ways to express and deal with different feelings.  I didn't realize that OT could address all of these things, but the activities that she does with him seem to be focused around the areas where he really struggles and I'm thankful for that.  And Corban also loves the sensory bin and putty that we got for help with calming down.



"Mom take my picture by this pole.  It looks like something from Narnia."  Gabriel loves
Daddy driving him to school most mornings so that they can listen to Narnia books in the car.
And finally last weekend we went to the open house at the local Vet School.  They have this every year, but I'd never taken them.  They had so much fun.  There were exotic animals to touch and see, ice cream for milking a pretend cow, a "repair clinic" where vet students had stuffed animals and felt hearts and they could have one sutured on, cookies decorated like cells, microscopes, and a whole room full of animal skeletons.  We will be going to back next year I hope!





Identifying ticks


They had a book of facepainting options, which did not include a bat.  Gabriel had never wanted his face painted but was certain that he needed to be a bat.  The girl looked up an example and he loved it!



Monday, February 4, 2019

Holidays and Winter


The holidays came and went so quickly it seems.  I can't believe that it's February.  Here's a rundown of what we've been doing: 

In December we did a lot of our "normal" Christmas time things.  We went to see the local live nativity, we went to the Christmas program at church, both boys had Christmas performances at school, class parties, Corban kept getting the words "version" and "virgin" confused ("I want to listen to a different virgin of that song!"), lots of family came to visit at different times.  This was the first Christmas that we've lived in Virginia that has not involved a trip down to Georgia.  There were good and bad things about that.  It was nice not to pack up and go anywhere and to have Christmas at home with our traditions (yummy breakfast, presents, watching The Nativity Story, Waffle House for dinner).  It was a little sad not to have big family gatherings though. 

Cool hats from Once Upon a Child.  They can only wear them for playing in the snow
 and at home.  The first day we got them Gabriel wore his in the Chick-fil-a play place
and scared a little kid so badly that he started crying.

It has been a cold and snowy winter so far.  I'm a little over it personally.  But, if it's going to be cold at least there have been a few days where the boys could play in the snow.







Their "snow store".  They were selling random treats to eat.


Gabriel is still really enjoying school and making improvement with his ability to focus and keep his talking in check.  One area where he is having a hard time is with chewing and putting things in his mouth.  His classmates have even noticed it.  One day in particular he had chewed on his shirt so much that it was completely wet and he bit through one of the buttons.  He had his 6 year old wellness visit back in December and I brought it up with the pediatrician after a conversation with his teacher.  He is supposed to start occupational therapy soon but it's taking the referral a really long time to get set up.


Christmas program
Hanging out at Gabriel's class party.  He's just one of the kindergartners. 
He likes going to help with Gabriel's lunch and talking to the kids there.



Christmas Party
When I was having a meeting with his teacher she told me a couple of funny things about Gabriel.  One is that many days he goes on and on to his classmates about Narnia (he listens to the audio books on the way to school with Daddy sometimes).  She said no one knows what he's talking about but he gets really into it.  She also said that he can explain theological concepts to everyone really well, which I find interesting.

One day he was talking to a girl in his class and said "Right now you're a 'Miss' but when you grow up and get married you'll be a 'Mrs.'  Like if you marry me you'll be 'Mrs Rollo.'  But that's my mom's name. . .wait. . ."

Another day he asked one of the girls if she wanted to pretend to be his wife.  She said "No, I want to be a unicorn."  Gabriel said "you can be a unicorn and my wife."  She agreed to this.  Then they decided that the other boy in his class was their son.


After Corban's Christmas program

Building his first Lego set with Daddy

This couple was trying to take a nice picture after the Christmas Eve service.  The wife sent me the
picture and said "your pastor kid son is photo bombing us back there preaching his sermon"

Christmas morning

He bought this Lego set himself and then came home and built it with no help

Snoozing with Hannah Kate

Mary Poppins Returns!


The big news if you were to ask the boys is that we finally got a van.  I was sad to say "goodbye" to my Civic, since it was just a little over a thousand miles shy of hitting 200,000 but we needed more space and we found a used van with really everything we were looking for.  The boys love it and it certainly was nice the last time we took a trip to have the extra space.  I still can't seem to park it very well and I'm still not sure what all the buttons do.  Corban somehow set a destination into the navigator and it took me a couple days to figure out how to delete it.



Transportation Museum
Corban still loves preschool and he has adjusted to having Gabriel gone during the day, even though it's clear that he misses him.  He told me the other day that he wished that he was Gabriel.  When I asked him why he said "because then I could take violin lessons too." It's hard sometimes to be the little brother, but I sure am thankful that they (mostly) like to play together.  I like the mornings when they wake up and just start doing things together in their room without even coming out.  Part of me wants them to be so excited to see me that they think about nothing else, but I'd rather that they are content to be together and talk and play.  They actually decided one day that they were going to both be construction workers when they grow up and work on the same job site.  Another day, after having a long discussion about orange juice, they decided that when they grow up they are moving to Florida together to grow oranges and make orange juice for people.  I hope they always stay friends :)

UNO and hot chocolate with Daddy

Corban relaxing


Cool guy haircut